How we treat each other
Last updated 1 November 2026
The short version: be kind, keep plans in public places, never ask for money, and take "no" for an answer. Every member agrees to this when they sign up.
1. Respect everyone
No harassment, bullying, threats or hate speech. No remarks about anyone's caste, religion, gender, sexuality, region, language, body, disability or background.
2. Consent comes first. This isn't a dating app.
No unwanted touching, flirting, comments or advances, at the plan or in messages afterwards. If someone says no, moves away or stops replying, stop.
3. Common spaces and public places only
Keep plans to the society's common spaces (clubhouse, courts, park, halls) or public places like cafés, turfs and parks. Never ask anyone into a flat, hotel room or somewhere else, and no overnight stays.
4. No money between members
Never ask a member for money, and never send money to one. No selling, recruiting (MLM, insurance, investments, crypto), fundraising or paid companionship. If a venue charges, like a turf or cinema, each person pays the venue directly.
5. Be honest
Use your real name and age. Post plans that really are what they say. Don't create more than one account.
6. Photos and privacy
Ask before you photograph anyone or post their picture. Don't share anyone's number or details outside the plan without their permission.
7. Arrive sober and safe
No drugs and no weapons. If you drink where it's served, drink responsibly.
8. Show up, or tell people
If you can't make it, withdraw from the plan page as early as you can. Organisers: if you cancel, do it early. Everyone you accepted is told automatically.
If you organise a plan
- Be there, at the public place you posted, from start to finish.
- Only accept people you're comfortable with, and decline politely.
- Don't ask people for personal details, photos or money before they come.
When teens are involved
- Teens join only through a parent's account. Talk to the parent; never contact a teen directly or ask for their number or social media.
- No alcohol, smoking or adult content at any plan that welcomes teens.
- Keep it in the open: never take teens anywhere other than the posted place.
If someone breaks the code
- We remove posts that break the rules.
- One serious report means suspension while we look into it. We aim to finish reviews within 72 hours.
- We may ban people permanently.
- For anything criminal, such as assault, threats or fraud, we'll help you contact the police and cooperate with them.
How to report something
- Use "Report" on any post or profile. Use "Block" to stop someone seeing your posts or asking to join them.
- Or message us on WhatsApp.
- In an emergency, call 112.
Reports are private. We never tell anyone who reported them.